Lean in.

Who says you can't learn something from Cosmo!?

While traveling a few weeks ago, I picked up the magazine at an airport kiosk. While reading on take-off, I came across this great article. It was an excerpt from Sheryl Sandberg's new book, Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead.

In case you don't know, Ms. Sandberg is a Facebook exec and in 2011, was named Forbes Magazine's 5th most influential woman in the world. She is uber successful and is passionate about helping women take charge of their careers and more importantly their lives. 

An excerpt:

 "This question speaks to everyone, but I think it has special significance for women. Fear is at the root of so many of the barriers that women face. Fear of not being liked. Fear of making the wrong decision. Fear of drawing negative attention. Fear of overreaching. Fear of being judged. Fear of failure. And for those who want to have children, the fear that we can't be both good employees and good mothers."

 Now, surely I have my own thoughts on the last part, being a woman who is passionate about one day starting a family- but strongly desiring to keep working. But beyond the work-life balance aspect of this; I believe Sheryl's touching on a much bigger picture.

I think often times we don't take the time to self-reflect and ask ourselves, "what's holding me back from doing or being whatever it is that I want to do or be?"

I challenge you this week: Ask yourself this question, but don't just think about your job or career. Find a quiet spot, think about your life, take a deep breath...and then ask.

Then, brainstorm every possibility and opportunity you can think of to achieve it. Sheryl is also big on women communicating with one another more about our fears and limitations as well (promoting Lean In Circles where women can talk openly and candidly about their careers). Enlist a friend, or therapist if need be.

 Find an accountability partner, tell them and reassure yourself of what you want, and Lean In to your life.

So, what's stopping you??